Sex toys help couples better communicate their sexual desires. They are fun to use with or without a partner. Experts recommend oral sex toys to begin with.
Consider a vibe that targets both the clitoral and G-spot for explosive blended orgasms.
Buying Your First Sex Toy
There are many different types of phallic devices, from those that rumble, vibrate, and suck, to those that you can lick or masturbate with, and even share between partners. Finding one that suits you can be difficult.
The first step is to think about what you’re looking for from a toy, how you want to use it and the sensations you are interested in exploring. Ideal is to go shopping with someone who knows and understands you, and will support your explorations. Online shopping allows you to make a choice in a relaxed environment, free from any outside pressure.
When you go to purchase your toy, look for a store that stocks a wide selection of toys designed specifically for pleasure. This is reassuring, as you know that there will be something for your needs. If the staff is trained in sex education, they will be happy to guide you through the selection process and find the right toy for you. Shop at adult stores that are owned by women and workers. This can make the experience more positive for both customers and employees.
BDSM Kits
BDSM toys are designed for a variety of purposes, including bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, and sadism/masochism. Some types of BDSM toys can cause significant pain, so these types are usually best for couples with plenty of experience. A BDSM kit is a great way for beginners to try out new kinks, without spending hundreds of bucks on equipment that might end up in the back of a closet.
Typical BDSM kits will include restraints, stimulators, and fetishes. For example, a handcuff and sex pillow set can be a great start to bondage play for a couple that has never played together before. The sex cushion has grippable handles as well as a machine washable cover. It also has a grabbable handle at the cuff to allow the dom to maintain control of the item.
Under-mattress restraint kits are another way to explore BDSM. With the silk sashes that come with this kit, bind the partner’s legs and arms in the classic Cowgirl position. Then use their hands as you please — nipple-suckers, ticklers or pinwheels work well. Add a ball gag and blindfold to create a sense of surprise. Then, tease them and torture them with your toys to get them to promise to make out with you. This kinky pose will bring out power, trust, and deeper intimacy within a relationship.
Massage Candles
Massage candles are a great way to reduce stress, relieve aches and pains, or increase intimacy in couples. Not only are they simple to make but they are also safe and simple to use. Simply light the candle, wait for it to start melting and once melted pour onto hands or directly onto skin. Couples can even drizzle warm wax on each other to give a sexy body massage.
We recommend that you choose a massage candle with a cotton wick. Wooden wicks may discolour the oil and leave a slight odor in the wax. They can also cause a rash for some people. The oil in our Massage Candles is formulated to meet cosmetic regulations. We do, however, add an extra 3% when compared to regular fragranced candles. The extra 3% ensures that the oil is safe for intimate use.
We also have a large selection of dildos available in different sizes and shapes. Made of a variety of materials including silicone, rubber, metal and break-resistant glass, our dildos are designed for use inside the vagina, anus or mouth. They can be curved in order to stimulate the gspot or prostate, and positioned to achieve deep penetration. With so many options, you’re sure to find a sexy toy that suits your needs.
